My life
So school is finally out and I thought that I would write something productive for Meghan to read since I never get to talk to her, and maybe even other people who feel like an update on my life. School sucks, and I never want to go back.. but at the same time, I am totally clueless as to what else I should do. I like designing things, and the kids where I volunteer think I'm a great artist lol, so I am thinking about possibly trying that design school in nyc. That is all depending on how things go in NYC and how things go with Dave.
As you all might know by now, I have been dating Dave for about 3 months (this May 5th will be our 3rd month mark). Things might've started out a bit rough... we definately are not the average couple that hooks up and everything goes great and then starts going sour. For us, it's been almost the complete opposite. Things started out really rocky, but have become really great recently. The biggest solution to our problems has been learning to compramise and at least allow each other to have differing oppinions on certain things. I think that's why I like him so much. He doesn't let me boss him around or walk all over him, he doesn't let me force my oppinions on him. Instead, he will stand up for his own beliefs and he will also allow me to have my own seperate ones. But to balance that part out about our stubborn personalities, he is also very sweet and really giving. He is always doing things for me, even if I don't ask or don't realize how much I needed them (like a back massage ;)). He is also really quick to defend me if anyone is attacking my name or saying anything that he thinks is wrong about me. I really like that about him. Loyalty is a very important thing to me.
I think I've ony been in one other relationship where things started out badly and ended up really great. And that's with Meghan. Meghan is a very great sister to me, and I consider her one of my closest friends, but growing up, things weren't even close to good between us. It wasn't until she moved away, and we both learned how much we had been through together, that we started to trust each other and talk to each other. We began to listen to each other and learned that we are not so different after all, and our differences make us that much more fun to be around.
I now also have a kitten. Her name is Cupcake. Well.. I more share her with Dave, because after I move, he is the one who will keep her unless circumstances change and my parents want a cute little kitten around and Dave wants to let go of the little bundle of joy. She really is a ray of sunshine to my small little existance. She is cute, cuddly, and everyone who has ever met her falls instantly in love with her.. well, almost everyone. A few of Dave's roommates didn't like her at first, they are dog lovers, but now they are always asking to take her outside or play with her in the living room, they let her ride up on their shoulders. She really does melt hearts, even when she is a butt head and bites too hard. I figure she's a kitten and doesn't know better, but we always grab her by the scruff and say "NO" and give her a tap on the nose. It seems to help for at least an hour or 2. Eventually she'll learn. She's already gotten better with her claws and doesn't use them to climb on our bare arms and legs anymore. I can finally wear shorts! We also taught her how to kiss and I'll say "give mama a kiss!" and she'll put her little nose up to mine and lick my lips. She's started doing it when I don't even ask. And if I get mad at her for biting me, she'll come up and give me a kiss and cuddle with me. It's too cute to stay mad. She's the smartest little kitty ever. Plus, she loves her mommy and she loves to sleep either in the crook of my arm or on my shoulder. I just love her so much.
What else to write about...
Well, before I leave Utah, I have a list of things to do.. among those, seeing Bridalvail falls, like my dad told me to do last year. So I think Dave and I are going to hike there tomorrow from his house in Orem. Wish me luck that I don't pass out and die. I've already hiked the Y so that's off my list. I also got to see the old lady in the graveyard who sits on her husbands grave every night. That was sad.. and creepy... I've gone skiing.. a major utah experience... and so now all I have is the bridal vail falls, perhaps a go-cart race or 2... we'll probably go to lagoon (the theme park)... etc. If anyone has any suggestions on where to go, lemme know.
Well, I gotta go, but I have to say that while I rip on utah and the utards all the time, part of my will miss this place. Why? Well.. it's beautiful in the summertime, and it's great for winter sports. Plus, I have made a lot of friends here, and I'll be sad to leave them all behind.. although many are leaving here before me :\.
As you all might know by now, I have been dating Dave for about 3 months (this May 5th will be our 3rd month mark). Things might've started out a bit rough... we definately are not the average couple that hooks up and everything goes great and then starts going sour. For us, it's been almost the complete opposite. Things started out really rocky, but have become really great recently. The biggest solution to our problems has been learning to compramise and at least allow each other to have differing oppinions on certain things. I think that's why I like him so much. He doesn't let me boss him around or walk all over him, he doesn't let me force my oppinions on him. Instead, he will stand up for his own beliefs and he will also allow me to have my own seperate ones. But to balance that part out about our stubborn personalities, he is also very sweet and really giving. He is always doing things for me, even if I don't ask or don't realize how much I needed them (like a back massage ;)). He is also really quick to defend me if anyone is attacking my name or saying anything that he thinks is wrong about me. I really like that about him. Loyalty is a very important thing to me.
I think I've ony been in one other relationship where things started out badly and ended up really great. And that's with Meghan. Meghan is a very great sister to me, and I consider her one of my closest friends, but growing up, things weren't even close to good between us. It wasn't until she moved away, and we both learned how much we had been through together, that we started to trust each other and talk to each other. We began to listen to each other and learned that we are not so different after all, and our differences make us that much more fun to be around.
I now also have a kitten. Her name is Cupcake. Well.. I more share her with Dave, because after I move, he is the one who will keep her unless circumstances change and my parents want a cute little kitten around and Dave wants to let go of the little bundle of joy. She really is a ray of sunshine to my small little existance. She is cute, cuddly, and everyone who has ever met her falls instantly in love with her.. well, almost everyone. A few of Dave's roommates didn't like her at first, they are dog lovers, but now they are always asking to take her outside or play with her in the living room, they let her ride up on their shoulders. She really does melt hearts, even when she is a butt head and bites too hard. I figure she's a kitten and doesn't know better, but we always grab her by the scruff and say "NO" and give her a tap on the nose. It seems to help for at least an hour or 2. Eventually she'll learn. She's already gotten better with her claws and doesn't use them to climb on our bare arms and legs anymore. I can finally wear shorts! We also taught her how to kiss and I'll say "give mama a kiss!" and she'll put her little nose up to mine and lick my lips. She's started doing it when I don't even ask. And if I get mad at her for biting me, she'll come up and give me a kiss and cuddle with me. It's too cute to stay mad. She's the smartest little kitty ever. Plus, she loves her mommy and she loves to sleep either in the crook of my arm or on my shoulder. I just love her so much.
What else to write about...
Well, before I leave Utah, I have a list of things to do.. among those, seeing Bridalvail falls, like my dad told me to do last year. So I think Dave and I are going to hike there tomorrow from his house in Orem. Wish me luck that I don't pass out and die. I've already hiked the Y so that's off my list. I also got to see the old lady in the graveyard who sits on her husbands grave every night. That was sad.. and creepy... I've gone skiing.. a major utah experience... and so now all I have is the bridal vail falls, perhaps a go-cart race or 2... we'll probably go to lagoon (the theme park)... etc. If anyone has any suggestions on where to go, lemme know.
Well, I gotta go, but I have to say that while I rip on utah and the utards all the time, part of my will miss this place. Why? Well.. it's beautiful in the summertime, and it's great for winter sports. Plus, I have made a lot of friends here, and I'll be sad to leave them all behind.. although many are leaving here before me :\.
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